What to Do if He only Wants Hookup While You Want More?

Have you ever been in such situation where you met a guy whom you really like and want to have a relationship with, but all he wants is just one night hookup? I am sure most girls have been in such dilemma before in their life. This can be hurtful and regretful if you failed to persuade him into being a relationship with you. As a matter of fact, you can never persuade a man into a relationship with you, but only attraction or “seduction”. There are tricks in making it happen. As long as he is into you, you will eventually “get” him. Here are several tips for you.

First, don’t pretend that you are okay with casual hookups while you are not. This is the most important one. Once you give him an impression that you are open for casual one night hookup, there is fewer chance that you will be seen as a potential serious relationship partner. I know many people think once they get the chance to be with him, they can find a way to go into his heart, but that usually doesn’t work. You have to lead him to you, not the other way around. Be clear with your standpoint and with what you want firmly. The only way for him to be with you is to have a serious relationship with you. He might fight over him feelings for you, but the harder he fights, the deeper he falls. That is just how it usually works.

In the same time, you need to go all-out to let out your charm to “seduce” him. Dress up your prettiest clothes and the best makeups both in real life and in hookup apps if there is any. Try to impress him from the appearance. Men are all visual creatures. Once they favor your appearance, they won’t be able to hold long inside before you go into their heart.

After they have a positive attitude towards your appearance, you need to strike them by your personalities. The most important and seductive characteristic is confidence. Being confident no matter what. You need to have faith in yourself. You are the best version of yourself. Also you have to be generous and kind. Just try to bring the best side of you to him. As long as he falls for you, he will be able to accept your dark side. Just think it this way.

Don’t sleep with him unless he really likes you. He only wants one night dating, that equals he only wants to sleep with you. What would happen if you give it to him right away? After his goals are achieved, you will no longer be attractive to him. It may sound harsh, but that is the truth. Therefore, hold yourself. Don’t let him get you so easy. Sometimes it is really necessary to play some games such as hard-to-get, especially when facing a guy like this. I wish you all the luck.