How to Hookup with Someone You Like?

If you manage to find someone you like who is also interested in hooking up with you, then I must congratulate you. It is nothing but normal these days to hookup with someone for a short period of time. With this fast-growing world, more and more people prefer short-term relationship than long ones, because hookups are just more drama-free and requires less responsibility. Here are a few tips for you to have a one night dating with someone you like.

The first tip I would like to give you is also the most important one---having fun. What is the purpose of this one night hookup? Having fun which is pretty obvious. Therefore, if you are not having fun, just forget about it and quit at anytime. Don’t do anything you don’t feel comfortable about. For example, if your partner in interested I trying BDSM, while you don’t have such thing in you. Don’t force yourself into it. You are in this one night hookup for the same purpose. There is no need to make compromise for something you cannot handle. I know being generous and considerate is a good quality, but not in this case. Hookup is all about having fun. Remember.

Ask about sexual history of your partner. The reason for doing this is to make sure your partner is free from STDs. Nowadays, there are really amazingly huge number of people who have STDs and a huge deal of them prefer to keep it as a secret to themselves. You should not only talk about sexual history, but only check each other’s test result from recent. It can never be too careful when it comes to your health. Besides, even if he/she is clean, you should also wear condom. I know many people might beg for not wearing them. I really don’t know what is their motivation of doing this. Wearing condom is non-negotiable. You shouldn’t compromise on this issue no matter what. I think I can never emphasize this issue too much.

Don’t be ashamed of hooking up. If you still have this stale idea of spurning one night hookup, it is time to abandon that idea. Come one! This is year 2019. Everybody should have one night hookup with someone for at least once in their life. There is nothing to feel shame about if you are not hurting anybody. Two people willingly have fun together. No forcing and no damage. What is there to be ashamed of? On the other hand, being afraid to try things you like is a poor-spirited behavior. Everyone has the right to do things they like as long as it is not damaging. There is no need to explain. Defend yourself starting from defending your interest. Start from now.

I really hope you can have a successful hookup experience with the person you like. Good luck to you all in finding hookups on hookup app.